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Wednesday ( Thoughts.... @ 2:20:00 AM )  Today I was viewing through my hubby's handphone, and saw some of the messages his ex-girlfriend had sent him. I was kinda shocked by what some of the messages, because through the message I see the gal's passion, love, and regrets... On the first few messages, it is sent when their relationship first started.At those times, the gal is very passionate and they should be a very loving couple. One of the message goes like this : "If a star drops down every time I miss you, then there should be no more stars left, because I am missing you in every moment of my life...." Words so poetic and passionate, that I am so sure I will never be able to say.... The gal has loved the guy(my hubby) so deeply and passionate that no amount of stars will be able to measure to that. This should be the period where love is sweet to the couple isn't it.... When their relationship has gone for a longer period of time, which is like 1-2 years, their love grow to a different stage. Now the gal's messages are mostly things like "dear must sleep early ok? If not tomorrow will be very tired...Miss u" , daily stuff a wife would remind her husband. This is when their love is deeper for each other.....this is a time where the gal could draw every details on her lover's face, even small almost invisible scars, pimples etc. Love is stable and heart-warming at this stage... Then comes the stage when the guy has more work to do and less time for the gal.... Tension is rising between the couple....Gal wouldn't understand why the guy dun love her as much as before.... Gal starts throwing temper everyday, and their path is getting more and more tough to move on... Gal knows she is being too bad-tempered but feels that guy should be tolerant. Guy tolerates till he could not take it. Break Up. "Human only learns to cherish something when its lost, but sadly some things will never be back after it is lost...." Indeed, this is always the case. When the girl recall the good old times in the past and how well the guy has always being treating her, being tolerant and understanding at all times, girl wants things to be as before. "I really hope for another chance to be ur gf, be with u when u need me, no matter in good or bad times......hope tat day will come..." -The girl regrets her decision made... Girl trys to mend her wrongs..... "I have always wanted to cook a meal for you , hope tonight's dinner is not too late...pls give me another chance..", but sadly, its really too late.... Girl had regrets.... "today is our 3yr 11mth, and next mth will be our 4 year, but it is meaningless now..." ...... "for the past 3year+, you have bought me to heaven, but after the big fall I am in hell, can you bring me up there again?I am torturing here..." But still, all is too late... Although the relationship has lasted for 3+years, but when love does not have the special touch on the couple anymore, it is gone forever....No amount of effort could bring that once so passionate love back again. Come to think of it, isn't love cruel? It brings two people to heaven but when it ended, they are being thrown harshly down,lower than where they first came from... Then the couple have to try and climb back to the ground, so that they could fly to heaven, and risk dropping down again? Humans can be pretty weird creatures huh... But well, being able to survive in this crazy and cruel world is weird enough, it won't hurt being even weirder... Some people may say, since there are risk when in contact with love, why risk it at the start? Well... everything thing has a risk isn't it? When taking an exam, you either pass / fail... Bungee jump...die of weak heart or survive with pride. Mostly, when we are able to survive form a fall, we learn important and precious knowledge. Just like in this world, nothing is free. You have to sacrifies something to get something else, the point would be what u wanna give up to get what you want. Actually, in this kind of riskful "games", there is always additional "insurances " you can buy so that u can be 70-100% sure that u will "survive". For example, before u take your exams, if you had revise regularly before the exams, you be pretty sure that u will pass isn't it? Just like in the "game of love", if you have an equal share commitment towards the relationship + tolerance and caring towards your partners' need, you would have a greater sense of security isn't it? And even if the relationship fails in the end, you will not have any regrets either cause you have done what you can to maintain the relationship... My theory.... Love+commitment=long lasting relationship... I once read this story.... about a small boy who had always love driving, and dream of having a motorbike... Thus before his 21st birthday, he told his father that he wanted a motorbike for his birthday. His father smiles, and said nothing. On the boy's 21st birthday, he was very excited to open his dad's present. Though the present looks abit too big to be a key, but the boy still unwrap in excitement, models of motorbike appearing in is mind.... It is a book. A bible, to be exact. The boy was angry and confused. Why? Why a bible? The boy could not forgive his father. He left home, never to come back.... Many years have passed, and the boy has turned to a fine young man. He had quite a stable income, cause though he left home, he continues his studies. One day he received a phone call from his mum. His dad is dead. His mum hopes he could come back to see his dad for the last time. Reluctantly, he returns home. His father is lying on his bed, lifeless. With just one look, the son turns away and head to his own room. The room is the same as before. There, on the table, lies the bible his father had gave him. Hatred filled the man. He took up the book and flip through the pages angrily. Then, something drops out from the book. It was a 60,000 cheque and a letter that says "Son, the reason I give you this bible is to test your patience. You do things rashly and is always impatient. If you manage to sit down and read this bible patiently it shows that you are mature enough to handle the bike, which I have given you the cheque so that you can choose what model you would like to have. drive with care son. Regards, Dad..." The son now run to his father's bed and cry towards the lifeless body...He cried and cried, but no amount of tears could bring his father back. His father is gone, and gone for good..... Well, many of us do live with regrets don't we? Why didn't we make the right choice at the start? Well, maybe somethings have to be learned the hard way....... 2 comments |
